戴尔·卡耐基（戴尔·卡耐基全集九州出版社电子书）

戴尔·卡耐基
Dale Carnegie, whose name is almost synonymous with success and influence, is perhaps the world's most famous writer in the field of communication and public speaking.Carnegie was born on a farm in Missouri on November 24, 1888.His father, John William Carnegie, was a poor farmer, and his mother, Amanda Elizabeth Carnegie, worked on the farm with her husband.Dale Carnegie began his life in poverty.The annual floods destroyed the farm and further impoverished the family.

戴尔·卡耐基，他的名字几乎是成功和影响力的代名词，也许是世界上最著名的交流和公共演讲领域的作家。卡内基于1888年11月24日出生在密苏里州的一个农场。他的父亲约翰·威廉·卡内基是一个贫穷的农民，他的母亲阿曼达·伊丽莎白·卡内基和丈夫一起在农场工作。戴尔·卡内基在贫困中开始了他的一生。每年的洪水摧毁了农场，使家庭更加贫困。The family was heavily in debt.The little boy had to get up at four in the morning to help milk the cows on the farm and then go to school.Dale was known for one thing: recitingHe often recites at local events and church functions.In high school, he joined the debating team but never won.Frustrated, he made up his mind to go to college.He enrolled in a state teacher's college.As he could not afford to live in the school dormitory, he had to ride a horse to school.He is said to have practiced reciting on horseback.

这个家庭负债累累。这个小男孩必须早上四点起床，在农场帮忙挤牛奶，然后去上学。戴尔以朗诵而闻名，他经常在当地活动和教堂活动上朗诵。高中时，他加入了辩论队，但从未赢过。受挫后，他下定决心要上大学。他被一所州立师范学院录取。由于他住不起学校的宿舍，他不得不骑马上学。据说他曾在马背上练习背诵。

As a child, Carnegie lacked confidence and was full of anxiety.One day, when he was helping his mother dig a hole for a cherry tree, he cried.His mother asked, "Dale, what are you crying about?"Dale sobbed, "I'm afraid I'm going to be buried alive in this hole."

孩提时代的卡内基缺乏自信，内心充满焦虑。有一天，当他帮妈妈挖一个樱桃树的洞时，他哭了。他妈妈问:“戴尔，你在哭什么?”戴尔抽泣着说:“我怕我会被活埋在这个洞里。”

When it thundered, he was afraid he would be killed by lightning;When the year is bad, I worry that there will be no food to satisfy my hunger;I worry about going to hell when I die.He was terrified of a big boy named Sim White, who had threatened to cut off his big ears...Later, he finally found that 99% of what he feared did not happen.

It is such a small boy with such low self-esteem and no confidence that he eventually became a psychological motivational master who gave thousands of people confidence and made people optimistic. It is really hard to imagine how much tempering and sweat this process requires.

打雷的时候，他怕被雷劈死;年景不好的时候，我担心没有食物充饥;我担心死后下地狱。他很害怕一个叫西姆·怀特的大男孩，因为他威胁要割掉他的大耳朵。后来，他终于发现，他所担心的99%的事情都没有发生。

就是这样一个自卑、没有自信的小男孩，最终成为了一个给千万人信心、让人乐观的心理激励大师。很难想象这个过程需要多少磨练和汗水。